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I help you dissolve your inner child traumas + hidden blocks so you can embody a higher, more expansive version of you ♥️
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You get to love yourself each + every day through:

You get to love yourself each + every day through:

- The way you speak to + about yourself
- The way you nurture + nourish your body
- The way you honour yourself, your needs + your feelings
- The choices you make
- The situations you put yourself in

You deserve to be loved ♥️

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Please Read the Graphics First BABY often forms c

Please Read the Graphics First
BABY often forms core wounds while in the womb + beliefs.

Curiously, the core beliefs + patterns you struggle the most with in adulthood usually have their origins in the womb.

Here's an EXAMPLE:

My client has always had a tremendously strong need to perform + achieve perfection. When we went into his time in the womb, we were taken to a time mid pregnancy where his parents discovered he was a boy - they wanted a girl. Baby was engulfed in their disappointment + knew it was about him. As a result he formed beliefs such as:

I'm a disappointment + I'm not enough + was filled with shame.

The PATTERNS he created in response:

▫️Over extending to 'make up for' not being enough in his own right

▫️Performing, achieving + always needing to be perfect - after all, his core belief was that he was a disappointment + not enough.

Decades later these patterns werestill plaguing him.

WE were able to heal his original traumas which dissolved the overwhelming need to 'make up for' himself + the need to achieve perfection.

He's still a high performer, however the difference is that his performance is no longer driven by those core wounds, he performs well because he enjoys it - the overwhelming 'need' is no longer there.

ABANDOMENT, feeling alone, feeling unsafe + flight response are all extremely common tramas I see originating from the womb.

AS A RESULT of this work, I can't overstate enough the importance of how we move through pregnancy + the support we give mom.

True CONNETION with baby is absolutely key as is supporting mom so she can properly support + nurture her unborn baby.

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THE MOST COMMON REASON we struggle in relationship

THE MOST COMMON REASON we struggle in relationships (or anywhere else in life) is that we're carrying unresolved inner child trauma.

The thing with inner child trauma is that most of us don't realise we have it + if we do, we usually have no idea the extent that we're carrying.

I realise this may feel confronting for some, but having facilitated over 10500 hours of inner child healings over the last decade - I can confidently make these statements based on what I see week after week.

RELATIONSHIPS tend to bring out our deepest inner child patterning.

OUR Inner children literally seek out a partner who feels like the parent where there is still some form of rupture in the hope that 'they can mend the rupture + finally receive what they didn't get the first time from that parent (partner).

We also tend to be drawn to partners who have similar traumas to our own - however their patterning is usually different. So whilst they feel like 'home' in some ways, they also trigger us in others.

There's no shame in carrying inner child trauma - we all do. However, your INVITATION is to begin tending to your past hurts + dissolving the patterns that were created - essentially to keep you safe.

Inner Child healing doesn't have to be messy, in fact, with the methods I use, it's incredibly gentle + loving, yet deeply effective.

YES it is possible to heal your inner child while still in the relationship, however, the other person also needs to be actively + effectively healing their inner child trauma too.

RESOURCES - click the link in my bio

Heal Your Inner Child Course for Self Healers - guides yu through healing the twelve most common themes of inner child trauma

WORK with Jen 1:1 in her 4 - 8 Week container

Have you observed old patterns coming up in your relationships?

IT DIDN'T HIT ME how abusive my own childhood had

IT DIDN'T HIT ME how abusive my own childhood had been until my healer asked me to write down the key, impactful events that had happened in my life from the time I was born.

I put the pen down at 21yrs - I couldn’t go any further.

I was NUMB seeing those words staring back at me like a sharp, shocking mirror that I could no longer hide from or avoid.

TEARS FLOWED down my cheeks as I asked my healer in earnest if I was actually sane or was everyone humouring me? I genuinely could not understand how anyone could go through what I’d been through - let alone me + still be okay.

I’ve always been resilient + prided myself on being able to withstand things that others' couldn't. I'd brush things off, make excuses for people + take the blame so as not to upset anyone else.

I even managed to minimise being drugged + gang raped multiple times when I was 16. Telling myself: “It could have been worse, they could have beaten me as well."

Like whaaaaaaat? It still shocks me today what I went through - thinking it was ‘normal’ or my fault somehow or the best I could expect given I was ‘less than’ everyone else - or so I believed at that time.

It’s often not until someone who hasn’t been raised in toxicity + has a healthy reference point for what’s okay + what isn’t, reflects these things back to us that we realise just how dysfunctional or abusive certain events or environments were.

I share my own personal story in a lot more detail in my book, which will be available by the end of the year.📙

I INVITE YOU to consider which events in your life happened that still need to be acknowledged + tended to.

UNTIL we do this - we too are neglecting, abandoning + betraying ourselves💡

Trauma doesn’t just go away - we just learn to live with it often by projecting it onto those we love.

Those parts of you are still hurting + waiting to be seen, heard, loved + healed.

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