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Jen Peters Multidimensional Healing System™
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After supporting over 2000 women and men to heal f

After supporting over 2000 women and men to heal following narcissistic abuse, I see the same health issues again and again.

There’s a very real cost to growing up in a narcissistic environment - or being in a narcissistic relationship.

Your body learns to live in survival mode.

Scanning, bracing, waiting for the next grenade to go off.

And this doesn’t only happen with overt abuse. Those who have experienced covert narcissistic dynamics often carry these too:

1. Inflammation from excess cortisol. Inflammation is the perfect environment for other dis-ease to flourish.

2. Disruption to your menstrual cycles.
This often looks like irregular bleeds, irregular intensity, painful cycles or missed bleeds. Endometriosis is also often linked to the narcissistic mother wound.

3. Chronic fatigue.
Your system has been on high alert for years or even decades - you won’t have been able to rest and replenish until you’re out of survival mode.

4. Autoimmune dis-ease.
Conditions such as Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis and Lupus are common for those who have experienced narcissistic abuse over multiple years.

5. IBS.
You may experience stomach pain, gut problems, sensitivity to different foods from prolonged emotional stress and anxiety.

7. Sleep issues.
You’re unable to rest properly because your body stays alert or wired at night - ready for danger.

8. Nervous system dysregulation.

If you grew up in a narcissistic family system or have had prolonged exposure to a narcissistic relationship AND are now having health issues such as these...

It’s highly likely that unprocessed trauma is the underlying cause.

🦋 The answer is in healing the emotional trauma stored in your body.

🦋 This is very deep work and is something I guide my clients through inside my 1:1 programs.

🦋I’d love to help you regain your health too!

Message me directly if you’d like to know more

OR

Comment: Cyclebreaker and I’ll send you info about my One Month Program.

Love,

Jen

IF you relate, it’s likely you were raised in an

IF you relate, it’s likely you were raised in an environment where you watched a parent abandon themselves too.

You may have learnt to be the “good girl” or “good boy”…the one who pleased, adapted, and took on responsibility early…
because you had to.

IN my experience working with thousands of clients raised in narcissistic family systems…
self-abandonment became the way they survived.

So simply deciding not to do these things any more - isn’t that easy.

These imprints have become part of your operating system.

We self-abandon as a direct result of having a deep, unprocessed abandonment wound.

We experienced abandonment (emotional or physical) from a parent and in response -
we learned to abandon ourselves rather than risk being abandoned again.

This pattern continues to play out in adulthood
until we address the core wound.

IT’S absolutely possible to shift from self abandonment into a place where:

✨ Your ‘no’ is respected

✨ You receive back what you put in

✨ You feel supported within your close relationships - without needing to ‘earn it’

✨ You no longer have to chase, or turn a blind eye - you get to be chosen, just for being you!

MAKING the shift from self-abandonment to self-devotion, there are two key areas that need to be addressed:

1. Healing your core abandonment wound - I use multidimensional healing

2. Establishing internal boundaries that stop you from abandoning yourself as you go about your day

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WE do this inside my 1:1 Programs and we’ll also be exploring this inside:

🦋 Healing the Narcissistic Mother Wound - 2 Day Immersion - starting May 3rd.

To learn more, COMMENT: Breakthecycle

🦋This is the moment you get to choose yourself.

Love, Jen 🩷

#selfabandonment #codependency #stepintoyourpower #innerchildwork #jenpeters

Every client I have worked with presenting with th

Every client I have worked with presenting with these types of issues, have been carrying an excess of unprocessed trauma from childhood.

They’ve grown up in environments where their parental figures were either emotionally neglectful, narcissistic or absent.

Or on the surface, things looked great at home, but in reality their emotional needs have not been met.

They haven’t had the support they needed or the emotional nourishment a child needs.

In many cases they have a narcissistic or overly critical parent.

In nearly every women I’ve worked with these issues have had the following patterns:

- Over Functioning
- Self abandonment / self sacrifice
- Driven to meet or exceed others’ expectations
- People Pleasing or keeping others
- Hyper Independence
- Fear of disappointing others or letting them down
- Tendency to function from the intellectual mind rather than the physical body.

And in most cases these women are also the primary financial provider in the home or they’re solely responsible financially.

So it’s very difficult for them to extricate themselves from the demands of their life - without everything else crumbling - even though it’s not sustainable + it’s hurting them.

IF THIS feels familiar, I want you to know that regaining your health is absolutely possible for most.

IN MOST cases, the unexplained chronic illnesses are very directly related to old patterns that were formed in childhood - in response to your environment such as those above.

TO ADDRESS the illness, we address the underlying cause - which will nearly always be a set of patterns formed in childhood that cause you to abandon yourself in some way.

We tend to those inner children meeting their needs + their patterns dissolve.

THEN the related illnesses begin to ease + you’re you’re able to begin reclaiming your health + your life again 🩷

***

🦋 WE can begin restoring your health inside my One Month Private Program -

🦋 COMMENT 1111 for details

🦋 OR Message me directly to discuss your situation and whether the One Month Program would be suitable for you..

Have you experienced this too?

#chronicillness #autoimmunedisease #womenshealthmatters #jenpeters

2-Day Immersion Healing the Narcissistic Mother Wo

2-Day Immersion Healing the Narcissistic Mother Wound - details below

As an adult you’re no longer in that environment, yet your body, your subconscious mind and your nervous system is still stuck back in time, feeling like it did when you were a child.

The old patterns and imprints still cycle around quietly sabotaging the parts of your life that are most important to you.

How you feel about yourself.
How you relate with your friends, your partner, your children.
What you believe is possible for you is shaped by these imprints.

And...your health.

After supporting thousands of clients through this work, I’ve seen how often chronic symptoms begin to emerge later in life - particularly in the 30s, 40s and 50s.

When we trace it back, it almost always connects to an environment that didn’t feel safe…and the patterns that were formed to survive it - decades later they’re making them sick.

HERE’S the thing - you don’t have to continue carrying these imprints...

YOU get to rewrite the story that was handed to you.

And when you do - everything begins to shift.

🦋Your nervous system softens so you don’t feel ‘on’ all the time, you can finally relax and sleep properly!

🦋 Your inner voice becomes more kind, supportive and in time...loving

🦋 When you look in the mirror you see a woman you love and that you’re proud of looking back

🦋 You begin to feel safe enough to soften and relax into your relationships

🦋 Your health begins to improve, and your vitality returns

These are some of the shifts I see in my clients when they do this deeper level of healing.

✨✨✨✨

If this speaks to you, I’m opening a 2-Day Immersion: Healing the Narcissistic Mother Wound

This is where we begin addressing Healing the Narcissistic Mother Wound -to learn more…

COMMENT: break the cycle

Love,

Jen 🩷

#NPD #narcissisticmother #innerchildhealing #traumahealing #Jenpeters

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